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My 1.5 Year Plan to A Minimalist Life

If you could design a life from scratch, with a job, neighborhood, family and friends of your dreams, what would it look like?  So why are you living the life you do now?

I have been reading a lot lately about minimalism.  I have been reading blogs like Everett Bogue’s Far Beyond the Stars and Joshua Becker’s Becoming Minimalist.  These blogs, and others, have really spoken to me.  I don’t want to live with under 75 possessions like Everett, and I don’t want to travel constantly like Chris Guillebeau, but I do want to live a more deliberate life and a life with fewer things.  I want to live a life of quality.

This is a unique time in history.  For many years, the goal was to do better in life than your parents, to have a better career, more money and more things.  This was, largely, achievable.  Better educational opportunities and career paths made it possible to work hard and wind up with a more comfortable life, free of some of the daily drudgeries that your parents had to do.  But now that has changed.  For many people, myself included, a normal career trajectory would not make me any richer than my parents, and could very well make me poorer.  I am lucky to be in a position where I can, if I choose, make quite a bit of money.  But the sacrifice that comes with that decision is bigger than the gain.  The money that I would make in the next forty years would be at the expense of my family, my health, my passions, and my soul.  That’s not a good deal.  And this got me thinking, what is the benefit of wealth anyway?

I know, what a first-world question to ask.  But really, what is the benefit of wealth except security?  Do we really try to make more and more and more money just to buy new toys, or because we are so afraid of what will happen if we don’t?  And does wealth guarantee security?  No.  It certainly makes it more likely that you won’t go without a place to sleep, but this recession has taught us that wealth can evaporate overnight, and jobs can disappear in the blink of an eye.  The deal that we were sold on is rotten.

So I’m out.  Well, not out quite yet, but as of today (actually, technically, more like as of two weeks ago) I am actively working to create a freer life.  This isn’t an overnight change.  I have a lot of debt (from school and a business) and I want to do this in the most intelligent way possible.  So this is a 1.5 year plan.  In that time I will minimize my possessions, reduce my spending, save the money that I make at DJF (day job firm), and create a location-independent income stream.  I will update here as I move along with this plan, mentioning the highlights, pitfalls, and the things that I learn in this process.  It will be an adventure, and I hope that you will join me.

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  • http://artofgreatthings.com Jeffrey Tang

    Good for you, Cara! Let me know if there’s anything I can do to help you out.

    On the subject of wealth: I think there’s a disconnect between what we as society call “wealth” and the kind of wealth we truly crave. The first kind of “wealth” is all about numbers in a bank account and gadgets in the living room. It’s fulfilling only in the short term, after which we need another fix. The latter kind comes from creating and contributing more than we consume. Real wealth comes from a desire to make, to advance, to become better, not from a desire to buy, buy, buy. Big difference!

    • http://advocation.me cara

      I completely agree about the definition of wealth. The wealths of experience, joy, and compassion are what make us fuliflled. Just think about little kids. Ask a child what he wants to be when he grows up and almost every answer is a helping profession (doctor, fireman, police officer, teacher, even architect). That is what we crave, to live a life that advances society. No five year old says he wants to grow up and be a hedge fund manager.

  • http://theminimalistpath.com David Damron

    Congrats on starting the journey. It is quite the exciting one and I am proof of such.

    David Damron
    The Minimalist Path

  • http://simplytrece.wordpress.com Trece

    Cara I look forward to following you on your journey to a life of daily richness. You are smart to make a plan, instead of jumping in without thought. I know that as you downsize, you will feel more pleasure in that which you choose to keep. Best of luck!

    • http://advocation.me cara

      Thanks Trece! I have already noticed a difference in what I am choosing to keep (though I haven’t gotten rid of much yet). I rediscovered a necklace that I treasure, but had forgotten about and allowed to become tarnished. If that isn’t a metaphor for a consumerist life I don’t know what is!

  • http://www.bemorewithless.com/ Courtney Carver

    I am so on board! I have been living the “American Dream” for too long. The harder I work, the more I make, and the more I spend. I’m over it. Looking forward to reading about your journey.

    • http://advocation.me cara

      Thanks! I know EXACTLY what you mean about the “American Dream.” That’s someone else’s dream that people tried to convince was our own. We need to live our own dreams.

  • http://www.graspingforobjectivity.com Rachel @ Grasping for Objectivity

    Brilliant post, and actually something I’ve been thinking about also. Not as much a Minimalist lifestyle, as using my money wisely and not just buying things on a whim. I used to be so much better at this, but over the past few years as life has gotten busier, I’ve held myself accountable a whole lot less. Plus, the joy of being able to bless those in need is much greater than any trivial possession I might could buy for myself, anyway.